Good Morning People!!
I grew up without a father. My mom gave up hope and walked out on him when I was (pretty much) still a baby. I grew up missing the feeling of what it felt like to have that strong male leader in my developing years, and because of it, my first go at being a father, turned into a horror show. I never learned any attributes of what being a father consisted of until I graduated to prison at 15, and what a feeling it was going from having no father, to gaining a prison full of them. I only became more confused. Years later I would have my own son and you could imagine the parenting he received. Because of my inability to perform my position, because of all of my own personal mistakes, he also missed out on experiencing true fatherhood and because of this, our bond has been broken. But being a father has nothing to do with being perfect. It has everything to do with mistakes, learning, making correction, and continuing to influence the seeds you’ve planted to grow. It has nothing to do with control. It has everything to do with being a strong influence and role model. So listen up People. It is easier to build strong children, than to repair broken men and you can’t build stronger children if you aren’t present in their lives. So to all of you imperfect fathers out there, you may have made your mistakes. You may have not been present when you should have been. You and your child may not have the best relationship because of these mistakes, but you have to continue to better yourself because the comeback will 100% be in your continued ability to become a positive influence in their lives.
It’s Ya Boy Coffee Cup Chuck Thank you for joining me for another powerful message. I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day and as always, Stay Positive People☕️😎👍🏾
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